How May You Contact Fredrick?
I prefer initial contact to be via e-mail. Send an email to @TantricKink.com, requesting an appointment. I will email you back with more information about learning options and fees.After a deposit is received and 48 hours before your appointment, I will send you my phone number, address, and directions. I will also inform you of any other recommended supplies and wardrobe options. If supplies are required; you must bring your own, or specific arrangements must be made 7 days in advance for additional cost. I will happily suggest places to purchase items in support of our local community.
I welcome all questions, but do understand that some things are best to discuss in person and will require an appointment.
Why Hire A Professional?
I have spent years learning about sex, sensuality, psychology, and practicing rigorously. Much as you would naturally hire a surgeon for open-heart surgery, because you respect the years of training and practice that they will bring to serve you; it is important to have a professional help you explore the sensual / sexual depths of your heart and mind.With my experience and wisdom, I can help you navigate your desires in a nature that is genuine and comfortable for you to both explore your current vulnerabilities and gain both confidence and advanced technical skills.
How Long Will It Take To Master?
Sensual education can be approached as a short-term curiosity, or a life-long pursuit.Some students will schedule one appointment for one specific topic. Others are interested in more diverse or deeper exploration that can take between 4-8 appointments on a weekly or bi-weekly basis. Let me know where you are physically, emotionally and technically now, and we can chart a course to where you want to be.
I recommend starting with an initial 2 hour appointment. As this is the most popular way to cross the threshold, I offer this initial appointment at a discounted price.
Payment
I require a $200 USD deposit via PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo in order to schedule an appointment.Advance full payment via PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo is required for initial appointments.
I accept cash, PayPal, CashApp, Venmo, or personal checks for all other appointments.
Surcharges and/or transaction fees are the responsibility of the client, and will be billed if not covered in original payment.
Additional tipping via cash, PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo is always appreciated.
As a Certified Sexuality Educator, Certified Sex Therapist, and Professional Dominant; I do consider this to be a profession; and expect a high level of respect both from and towards you. As such, payment is required in advance via PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo for initial appointments. I accept cash, PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo or personal checks for all future appointments. This not only helps to ensure that we are both spending our time appropriately, but that I may manifest what you desire in the most memorable and fulfilling manner possible.
| Private Lessons - Special Rates | ||
| Initial 2 hour special | $350 | |
| (Four) 2 hour Sessions | $1,200 *All four sessions must be completed within 90-days from date of purchase. | |
| Private Lessons - Standard Rates | ||
| 90 minutes | $300 | |
| 2 hours | $400 | |
| 1 hour | $200 | |
| Sex Therapy | While Fredrick is a board certified Sex Therapist, they prefer to work triadically as a Sexuality Educator and not as a Therapist. The triad (Primary Therapist - Client - Sexuality Educator) will work collaboratively to create an incremental treatment plan. Additional para-professionals (Acupuncturist, Dietitian, Physical Therapist, Surrogate Partner, etc.) might be recommended to be supportive of Client’s individual needs. | |
| Intimate Group Workshops | ||
| Individuals | $25 - $65 / person, depending upon event specifics, + supplies if required. | |
| Dynamic Duos | $40 - $100 / pairing, depending upon event specifics, + supplies if required. | |
| Private Group | $500 for up to eight people for 90 minutes, + supplies, venue rental if required. | |
| Full Day | $2,000 for up to twenty people for 8 hours, + healthy catering, supplies, and venue rental if required. | |
| Weekend Immersion | $3,750 for up
to twenty people for two 8 hour days, + healthy catering, supplies, and venue rental if required. Workshops outside of the Portland, Oregon metropolitan area require additional travel expenses and per diem, as appropriate. |
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| Expert Witness | Hire Fredrick as an Expert Witness in Sexology: $350/hour + Travel expenses and per diem, as appropriate. |
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| Intimacy Coordinator | Hire Fredrick as an Intimacy Coordinator for your photoshoot or film production: $175/hour + Insurance, Travel expenses and per diem, as appropriate. |
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| Presenter | Hire Fredrick to teach a
90 minute workshop or give a
lecture at your venue: $500 or $350 + % of the gross sales. + Travel expenses and per diem, as appropriate. |
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| Event Host / MC | Hire Fredrick to
create a memorable 3-5 hour event at your venue: $3,000; or $2,000 + % of the gross sales. + Travel expenses and per diem, as appropriate. + Additional catering, equipment, venue rental, staff, performance artist, and/or fetish model rates, as appropriate. |
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| Supervision | Supervision will consist of individual in-person and/or virtual meetings, no less than two-hours per month for a minimum twelve (12) months. Sessions must be a minimum of one (1) hour. The supervisor and the supervisee will outline a mutually agreeable plan of supervision, which will improve the supervisee’s skills to achieve the standards required for potential Sexuality Educator certification. Monthly payment is $50 - $175 / hour, with a minimum of two (2) hours per month. Sliding scale is based upon Supervisee annual income capacity. IRS 1040 verification required. | |
| Casual In-Person Chat | This is a great and inexpensive way for you (and a partner) to get to know me, ask some questions, and feel comfortable about your interests. I am open to having a polite social meeting while sharing food prior to an appointment. You will be responsible for the cost of lunch or dinner at a cafe of my choosing. Plus, a minimum gratuity of $200 paid to me in cash for my time and shared knowledge. 90-minute meeting limit. | |
| Virtual Chat | If you are most comfortable with having a dialogue on the phone, video-chat, or through e-mail; that is wonderful as well. In respect of my time and shared knowledge; I charge $5.00 USD per minute for these modes of communication, with a 15-minute minimum. A pre-paid deposit of $300 or more is required. You will be notified of further payment requirements prior your account balance being depleted. Amounts paid are valid for 28 calendar days from receipt and are non-refundable. If you ask for things that violate my limits or otherwise seem disrespectful, I will thank you for monies paid as a gift and not correspond with you further. | |
| Deposit | I require a $200 deposit via PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo in order to schedule an appointment. This deposit is applicable towards our time together. Making your deposit guarantees a response from me and begins our conversation. I will refund the deposit only if I am unavailable to work with you. (In other words, if you ask for things that violate my limits or otherwise seem disrespectful, I will thank you for the $200 gift and not correspond with you further.) Please include your confirmed PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo payment transaction number in your message. | |
| Reimbursable Expenses | In addition to professional fees, some work will involve additional charges for out-of-pocket expenses, support and administrative costs, including, but not limited to, printing and [re]production costs, photography, postage and delivery charges, travel, auto expense at $0.54/mile, and international long-distance telephone at $0.40/minute, communication charges, staff, consultants, venue rental, catering, etc. These items will be billed with an additional administrative charge of 12%. If these charges exceed $100 you can expect to be asked to pay them in advance. | |
| Re-Schedule or Cancellation | 48 hour advance notice is required to change or cancel an appointment. If you cancel less than 48 hours in advance, you remain financially responsible for the cost of the appointment. I will do my best to be respectful and considerate of your time, as I expect you shall also be of mine. You may reschedule within a week of your appointment time without any penalty. Rescheduling beyond 7 days is a 50% penalty, and over 21 days is a 100% penalty. |
Where Do I Teach?
Intimate learning appointments are typically held at Fredrick's private space in Portland, Oregon.If an alternative location is desired, it will need prior approval by Fredrick to maintain a level of physical safety and participant discretion. Additional venue rental costs, travel expenses, and per diem as appropriate.